How Do You Know if Going on a Cruise is Right for You?

A cruise ship at sea at sunset

Cruising is one of those vacations people either absolutely love and can’t stop raving about - or something they feel unsure about until they try it. In which case they then either love it or hate it!  

So, if you’ve ever wondered whether a cruise holiday would suit your personality and travel style, and whether it’ll meet your expectations, Martide’s guide will help you decide with confidence. Or at least point you in the right direction! 

Disclaimer: if you do end up going on a cruise after reading this and you DON’T like it, we can’t be held responsible! ;) 

What is a Cruise Vacation Really Like? 

A cruise is essentially a floating resort that takes you to multiple destinations without you needing to pack and unpack more than once. You travel by sea while enjoying accommodation, dining, entertainment, and activities all in one place. 

On a typical cruise, your day might look like this: 

  • Wake up to ocean views or a new port 
  • Enjoy breakfast on deck or in a restaurant 
  • Spend the day exploring ashore, if it’s not a ‘sea day’, or relaxing onboard 
  • Take part in activities such as fitness classes, shows, or poolside games 
  • End the evening with dinner, live entertainment, or a quiet drink 

Cruises can be as active or as relaxed as you want. Some people fill every hour with activities, while others treat it as a chance to unwind completely. 

lounge chairs on the deck of a cruise ship at sunset

Questions to Ask Yourself Before Booking a Cruise 

If you’re unsure whether the cruise life is the right life for you, asking yourself a few honest questions can help. 

Do You Enjoy Structure or Flexibility? 

Cruises follow a set itinerary, with fixed departure times from ports. While there *is *flexibility onboard, you cannot completely change your plans like you might do on vacation ashore. 

How Do You Feel About Being at Sea? 

If you’re comfortable on the water, you’ll likely enjoy cruising. However, if you’re prone to seasickness, and that doesn’t put you off, it’s worth considering a larger ship (more stability) or a calmer route. 

Do You Like Trying New Destinations Quickly? 

Cruises are ideal for sampling multiple destinations in one trip. However, time in each port is usually limited to a day or less. 

What’s Your Ideal Vacation Pace? 

  • Prefer relaxation and convenience? Cruises can be a good fit. 
  • Prefer deep exploration of one place? Land travel may suit you better. 

Are You Comfortable Sharing Spaces? 

Cruise ships can carry anywhere from a few dozen to several thousand guests. Even on large ships, there are quiet areas, but you’ll still be around other travelers. And let’s be honest, some of whom might not be your preferred choice of travel companion! 

a busy cruise ship with scores of people and sun loungers on the deck plus a waterslide

Types of Cruises to Consider 

Not all cruises are the same, and the experience can vary widely depending on the type you choose. 

Family Cruises 

  • Designed with children and teens in mind 
  • Water parks, kids’ clubs, and family-friendly entertainment 
  • Popular with multi-generational groups 

Adult-Only Cruises 

  • No children onboard 
  • More relaxed or upscale atmosphere 
  • Focus on dining, wellness, and entertainment for adults 

Themed Cruises 

  • Built around specific interests such as music, food, or fitness 
  • Can include guest speakers, performances, or workshops 

Exploration and Expedition Cruises 

  • Focus on remote destinations such as Antarctica or remote islands 
  • Smaller ships with expert guides 
  • More educational and nature-focused 

aerial view of a cruise ship sailing down a river surrounded by mountains

Luxury Cruises 

  • Smaller ships with higher crew-to-guest ratios 
  • Premium dining and personalized service 
  • Often include excursions and drinks in the ticket price 

Read more: Cruise Ship or Expedition Ship: Which Vacation is Right for You?

Types of Cruise Ships 

Another thing to carefully consider is the size and style of the ship as this can significantly shape your experience. 

Mega Ships 

  • Carry thousands of passengers 
  • Offer extensive amenities like theaters, water slides, and multiple restaurants 
  • Feel like floating resorts 

Best for: first-time cruisers, families, and those who enjoy variety 

Mid-Sized Ships 

  • Balance between amenities and a more relaxed atmosphere 
  • Easier to navigate than mega ships 

Best for: travelers who want options without crowds 

Small Ships 

  • Carry fewer than 500 guests 
  • Can access smaller ports 
  • More intimate and quieter environment 

Best for: experienced travelers or those seeking a more personal experience 

a small cruise ship sailing through the Antarctic

What Amenities Can You Expect on a Cruise Ship? 

Cruise ships offer a wide range of facilities, often comparable to land-based resorts. Of course, these depend on the size and type of vessel. For example, you’re probably not going to find performances of the latest hit musical on an arctic exploration ship. 

Common cruise ship amenities include: 

  • Multiple dining venues, from casual buffets to specialty restaurants 
  • Swimming pools and sun decks 
  • Fitness centers and wellness spas 
  • Live entertainment such as shows, music, and comedy 
  • Bars and lounges 
  • Shops and boutiques 
  • Kids’ clubs and teen areas (on family-focused ships) 

Some ships also feature: 

  • Rock climbing walls 
  • Ice skating rinks 
  • Surf simulators 
  • Cinemas and theaters 
  • Art galleries and libraries 

a small swimming pool on the deck at the stern of a cruise ship

Cruise Vacation vs Land Vacation 

Choosing between a cruise and a land-based holiday often comes down to your priorities. 

FeatureCruise VacationLand-Based Vacation
Accommodation Same cabin throughout Multiple hotels possible 
Travel Between Destinations Done overnight while you relax Requires flights, trains or driving 
Dining Often included and varied Separate cost and planning 
Flexibility Fixed itinerary Fully flexible 
Pace Structured but relaxing Can be fast-paced or slow 
Cost Many inclusions upfront Can add up separately 
Destination Depth Short visits to many places Deeper exploration of one or fewer places 

Pros and Cons of Cruising 

Advantages 

  • Convenience and ease of travel 
  • Ability to visit multiple destinations 
  • Wide range of onboard entertainment 
  • Good value when meals and activities are included 

Considerations 

  • Limited time in each port 
  • Less flexibility once onboard 
  • Potential for crowds on larger ships 
  • Weather and sea conditions can affect experience 

a cruise ship sailing towards the Golden Gate Bridge at sunset

Who is Cruising Best Suited For? 

Cruising tends to suit people who: 

  • Enjoy variety and trying new destinations 
  • Appreciate convenience and planning being handled for them 
  • Like having entertainment and dining options readily available 
  • Are open to social environments 

It may be less ideal for travelers who: 

  • Prefer complete independence 
  • Want to spend extended time in one destination 
  • Dislike structured schedules 

Final Thoughts: Is a Cruise Vacation Right for Me? 

A cruise can be an incredibly rewarding way to travel, especially if you value convenience, variety, and a balance between relaxation and exploration. The key is choosing the right type of cruise and ship for your preferences. 

If you’re still unsure, a shorter cruise with a cruise line who homeports in your country can be a great way to test whether it suits you before you commit to a longer voyage.  

FAQ: Should I Go on a Cruise Ship Vacation? 

Can you get seasick on a cruise? 

Modern ships are equipped with stabilizers, so movement is usually minimal. However, sensitivity varies by person and route. 

Are cruises good value for money? 

They can be, especially when you consider that accommodation, meals, and entertainment are often included. 

Can you explore destinations properly on a cruise? 

You get a taste of each destination. For deeper exploration, you may want to return on a land-based trip later. 

Is cruising suitable for solo travelers? 

Yes, many cruise lines offer solo cabins and social activities designed for solo guests. 

What is the best first cruise to try? 

A short, 3 to 5 night cruise on a mid-sized or large ship is often a good starting point to see if you enjoy the experience.